Reading Round-Up | April Edition

Honey Glazed Chicken Stir Fry | Surviving College Life

This recipe is not only cheap, quick and easy, but it sounds super delish. I'm going to test it out and let you know how I do... but in the meantime, you should whip some up, too!

5 Inspirations for Turning Your Closet Cool | Apartment Therapy
AT features some creative small space solutions... as long as your willing to part with the closet space. Turn your closet into a sleeping nook, study area, and more!

Smoking is Unhealthy? Who Knew? | Getting In There
Wynn is so funny and fabulous. Her blog exudes wry humor and sarcasm---and she tells it like it is. You must go check out her pearls of wisdom.

5 Misconceptions and Stereotypes that Drive Me Crazy | Locked Out
Fruits, shopping, cooking, insecurity, and hysteria. Michelle makes some great points in this post and I totally agree.

The Best and Worst of College | Getting In There
Some more humor from Wynn... all about going to class, hooking up, moving away from home, social networking, and sexy athletes. ;)

10 Websites Every College Student Should Know | Dorm Delicious
Great list. I couldn't have compiled a better one myself!

Mike Hollingshead | Black*Eiffel
Beautiful, breath-taking, terrifying storm photos. You must see these to believe... unless you live in Iowa, of course.

Girl Crush | A Cup of Jo
See how menswear khakis, pale lingerie, a crisp white button-down, and straw purse combine to create effortless Corsican style.

April seemed like a long month. Let's hope that May goes a bit quicker so that summer can come on in at full force!

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11 Things to Do on a Rainy Day

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The rainy, chilly weather has made for dreary days for some people. But I love rainy days. The sound and smell of rain put me in the mood to read, write, and get creative.

1. Curl up in bed with a good book, plus some milk and cookies.
2. Invite your sweetie or a handful of friends over for some laid back entertainment. Think popcorn, movies, board or card games, etc.
3. Go to the library and locate a cozy nook where you can get some studying done or catch up on blogs.
4. You know that cute little coffee house down the street? The one with the exposed brick and intimate atmosphere? Go there. Take your laptop. And order some delightful coffee.
5. Take a walk. If you like the rain, just throw on your rain boots and grab your umbrella and you're good to go.
6. Go shopping if you have the extra time and cash.
7. Browse antique stores, thrift shops, or a local art museum.
8. Do some spring cleaning. Start thinking about how you're going to pack up all your stuff to take it back home for the summer.
9. Catch up on laundry. And while your loads are washing/drying, catch upon those episodes of One Tree Hill that you missed.
10. Start your own blog. Seriously. It's so much fun. :)
11. Kiss. C'mon, you know you wanna. Who hasn't yearned for a delicious kiss in the pouring rain after watching The Notebook and the bajillion other romance films that feature steamy rainstorm kisses? Pull him out into the rain and lay a bit one on him. (If you're feeling extra risky... have him hang upside down like Spiderman while you smooch.) :P
    

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Will Your Academic-Year Romance Last Through Summer Break?

You hear a lot about summer relationships and taking them into the school year, but what about making sure that a school year relationship can last the summer?

The school year has flown by. You've met new people, made new friends, and possibly started dated someone. Whether he lives in the same dorm or across campus, your new boyfriend has probably been by your side for weekend parties, study sessions, and movie dates. But what happens when school's out? If the two of you come from the same town or within 30-60 minutes of each other, you're probably not too concerned. But what if you live hours apart or even different states?

Here are some ways to ensure that your new romance can endure through summer break:

Bring it up. See what he thinks. If you two have been dating since the fall, you've probably gotten pretty close and serious. But if you just started dating him within the last month, it's a different situation. It's important to see what he wants out of your relationship and whether or not he wants to continue dating through the summer. It's also important to just get his opinion on how everything will work out while you date in the summertime (travel, dates, times, etc).

Communicate. Talk about anything and everything. Don't rely on social networking sites or texting. If you can't get face-to-face contact, pick up the phone. Hearing someone's voice is always better than reading impersonal words on a computer screen. Don't worry about what you talk about just talk. Even easy stuff like how your day went, what you did, who you hung out with can make you feel more connected to your guy.

While you shouldn't rely on technology, you can take advantage of it to compliment phone and face-to-face convos. E-mail each other. Use Skype. Instant Message. Web cam. Those are all easy ways to keep in touch.

Meet regularly. Plan to see each other at least once every month---maybe even twice. Work out the travel plans. Perhaps he'll drive to your town one weekend and you'll drive to his in two weeks. Or meet somewhere in the middle.

Don't exhaust yourselves of each other. Schools out and you may suddenly find that you have tons of time on your hand. Your first thought may to be to spend an entire week or more together. But don't suffocate each other. If neither of you gets enough space, you'll tire of the relationship.

Lay ground rules. If you mutually decide to date other people over the summer, don't get mad if you hear that he has been doing just that. If you mutually decide to stay loyal and date exclusively, don't cheat and don't let him get away with being a cheater either.

Keep jealousy out of the equation. Jealousy can spring up if trust and communication are lacking. It may be because of past insecurities or experiences in former relationships, but don't let those experiences affect this new one. Trust each other. Have faith. Jealousy will only eat away at you.

Stay positive. If you live far apart and have busy lives, dating may be difficult at times this summer. But keep in touch, always assume that your guy loves and cares for you, and don't give in to negative thoughts.

Do those things and you will make so many memories during the summer. And you'll be able to pick up right where you left off once August rolls around.

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Guess who was on campus today?

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Barrack Obama visited my community college today. (Above is a photo that one of my friends took.) I didn't go. I had some homework and errands to take care of so I skipped out on my probably one chance to be in the same room as the president of the United States. Plus, I didn't want to deal with the horrible traffic and crazy crowds. Haha.

But classes were canceled, which resulted in a major project's due-date being pushed back 'til next Tuesday. So thank you for that, Mister President.

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Lilacs are Lovely

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I love lilac bushes and how they blossom into fragrant bursts of purple every year around this time. My bf's parents are lucky enough to have one of the beautiful bushes in their backyard. And his mom plucked some flowers off, stuck them in a jar of water, and sent them home with me. (Isn't she sweet?) And they smell soooo delightful.

For many of you, it's "Dead Week" or even finals week. But don't forget to stop and smell some flowers. It'll brighten your day in a fragrant way.

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Small Cool Inspiration

Apartment Therapy is doing their yearly Small Cool Contest and I'm eating it up. There are soooo many small, cool rooms featured that I adore. From time to time I'll be featuring my favorites for both my own and your decor inspiration.

(above: Madeline's Swedish Light - via Apartment Therapy) Breezy white curtains let the sunlight flow into this small apartment. The furniture maintains clean lines. And pillows and throws in different textures and patterns give the room some eclectic flair. Isn't that shiny silver floor lamp the coolest?

(above: Laura & Anna's Room for Entertainment - via Apartment Therapy) Filling the wall with art makes a bold statement. Not only do I love that there is vintage art in this room, but I adore how they displayed it---three large posters hung high on the wall and six smaller prints hung underneath.

(above: Michael's Vintage Features - via Apartment Therapy) This room looks spacious because of all the off-white---the walls, chair, couch, and curtains all match. I also love that table against the back window. If a renter is short on space, a small table like that can serve double duty as both desk and dining area.

(above: Sarah's Small Sanctuary - via Apartment Therapy) I love how warm, cozy, and eclectic this room is. The screen, old radio, records, and globe make for fantastic touches. I also like the mixing-and-matching of furniture pieces.

(above: Louise's Cocoon - via Apartment Therapy) This room exudes chic comfort. And it reminds me of the Loft Bed Hack that I featured back in January. Click here to find out how to create your own four-poster canopy bed using a dorm loft bed kit.

For more Small Cool, click here.

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Springtime Fun on Any Budget | Treat Yourself

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You've worked hard all school year and managed to keep bright and cheerful all through those dreary winter months. So what's a girl to do when spring comes around? Make it all about you. That's what. "Me-time" can be an essential to happiness. So some weekend, devote one night to yourself. Let your friends go to the party without you. Let the bf have his guy night out. And treat yourself to something this spring.

Totally Free:
There are so many simple pleasures in life that make everything worthwhile. Pick up that novel that's been gathering dust on your bookshelf and head to the park. Curl up under a tree or spread a blanket in the quad and let yourself get lost in the story. Or go for a walk with your camera in hand. See how many lovely things you can find to take a picture of.

On the Cheap:
Go window shopping or (if you want a little bit of a shopping rush) thrifting. See how cute of an outfit you can put together for only $15 spent at a thrift shop. Or devote a night to vegging out. Stuff all your textbook into your bookbag. Hide all signs of homework. And let yourself catch up on Gossip Girl via Hulu while wearing sweatpants and eating Ben&Jerry's straight from the tub.

Moderate Budget:
Take a dancing/cooking/craft/art class... whatever your heart desires. Check in with your college's student union or student activities center to find out what lessons are being offered. Ballroom dancing is all the rage right now and your student activities center might be offering lessons for anywhere from $10 to $30. Or if you feel that your space is in dire need of some redecorating, set yourself a budget and head to Target, Ikea, or a nearby vintage shop for some new accessories.

Splurges:
Desperately feel like being spoiled? Get your hair or nails done. Get your nose pierced. Get that tattoo you've been thinking about for the last eight months. Or if you live in a pet-friendly apartment, adopt a dog or cat. (Just be sure that mom and dad are okay with you bringing a furry friend home for summer vacation.)

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Rock Your Finals

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It's that time of year again. Summer break is just around the corner. But before you dive into the pool, you've got to get through final exams. Here's some tips on how to prepare for and rock your finals this semester:

Eat a good breakfast... everyday! It will start your day off right. And don't forget to eat a nutritionally balanced meal at lunch and supper, too. This is not the time to skip out on eating or opt for fast food. Treat your body well.

Ditch Facebook, Myspace, Twitter, etc... limit yourself to only five-ten minutes a day. These social networking sites have become compulsions that can devour time that you could spend looking over class notes.

Dedicate a little time each day to something you enjoy. If you love your blogs ;) give yourself a half hour to catch up on them. Or allow yourself thirty minutes to read that novel that's been gathering dust on your nightstand. Get your tv fix by watching your favorite episode of Gossip Girl on Hulu. If you completely forgo all of life's little pleasures, you'll end up burnt out before exam week even begins.

Swap out coffee, caffeine, and energy drinks for healthier alternatives. If you feel that you neeeeed caffeine, go for green tea. Otherwise, snack on things like granola, nuts, and berries.

Skip the bus/train/car and walk or ride your bike wherever you need to go on campus. Constantly going going going on public transportation will make it nearly impossible to unwind. Walking or biking will give your body much needed exercise. Exercise not only gives you endorphins (which makes you happy!) but it also gives your mind a chance to prepare before a test or unwind after a stress class.

Don't underestimate the power of cute clothes, cute hair, and cute make-up. The better you look, the better you feel. Try out a new pretty pink blush and glossy lipstick. Wear an adorable bow in your hair. And dress for success. You'll turn heads and feel like you can conquer the world... plus your exams.

Sleep. Just say no to all-nighters.

Put off the celebrations until after your own finals. Yes, there will be friends that finish before you. Yes, they will flock to the bars or host parties of their own. But restrain yourself from joining in on the festivities until you have completed all those tests. The last thing you need is drinking away an evening you should have spent studying and going off to your morning exam with an awful hangover. If you are one of the lucky ducks who finishes early in the week, be respectful of others who aren't finished. Don't pressure them into partying with you. And if you live in a dorm, obey the quiet hours.

Smile. It sounds so simple but can be so hard when you're stressed. But seriously just give it a try. You'll feel good and exude happy confidence.

Wear glasses. This may sound ridiculously silly. Not only do an adorable pair of thick black frames make you look fashionably nerdy... but if you feel smarter, you will live up to the part. So pick up an inexpensive pair of plastic frames from Urban Outfitters, Claire's, or Modcloth... and proudly wear them around all of finals week!

Good luck, lovely undergrads!

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Summer's a-Comin'

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You're probably up to your neck in term papers, study sessions, and preparing for those looming finals. But just think... in a few weeks (or days, for some of you lucky-ducks with the early release) you'll be up to your neck in a pool of sparkling water. Once you're sporting your new polka-dot bikini and soaking up the sun with friends, the end-of-the-school-year madness will be a distant memory.

So what are you doing this summer? Oh wait. You haven't given it that much thought? You just figured you do the same old same routine. Well, you still have time to rethink that dull routine if you want to make something more out of this summer. Here are some ideas:

Bring in Some $$$
If you've got the time, get a part-time job. Ask around to see who is hiring. If you like working with customers, check out stores in the mall and local groceries. If you love being outdoors and have CPR-know-how, check to see if the nearby pool needs lifeguards. If you can't get enough of kids, see if any daycares are looking for extra help. Consider being a waitress, bartender, cook, babysitter, dog-walker, or tour-guide at a local attraction. If you keep your mind open, you're options will stay open. And you'll get some more green to stash into your wallet, too. (You can always look forward to a shopping spree at the end of summer... or use all that money you made to pay some bills.)

Hit the Books... Some More
For some students, taking even one course during the some would be blasphemous. But if you're yearning to graduate a little earlier or interested in taking some extra classes that you don't have time for during the regular academic year, summer is the perfect time. Take summer classes at your university or check out a nearby community college if you wanna save money. Go part-time if you want to have plenty of time for other summer activities. Or go full-time if you have the motivation. It may work out in your favor in the long run. (But don't forget to have fun between all of that studying!)

Give Back
If you don't need money or extra course credits, consider giving a bit back to your community by volunteering this summer. There are plenty of opportunities in your town, all of which would likely be greatly appreciated. You'll feel great about yourself and be helping out others. It's a win-win.

Something New
Is there something that you've been dying to try? Summer is the time. If you long to be able to take an old chair from thrift-store drab to decor-worthy fab, take an upholstery class. You'll be doing furniture makeovers in no time. Check your area for cooking, painting, pottery, and instrument classes. Or if you secretly desire to go skydiving, go for it. It'll make for a great summer memory, eh?

Go Abroad
Itching to get out of the States? Become a globetrotter this summer by studying, working, or volunteering abroad. You'll be immersing yourself in a new culture, enjoying the beauty of faraway place, and gaining valuable life experience that you'll go on and on about once fall comes around.

Or, you could just loll away your afternoons at the poolside while giving come-hither looks to the cute, copper-toned lifeguard. ;)

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Springtime Fun on Any Budget | Dates

Spring is here and so is that famous "Spring fever." So whether you've caught yourself a cute spring fling or just want to re-connect with your handsome, going-steady lover... here are some ideas for any budget.

Totally Free:
Save some moolah by avoiding spending all together. There are plenty of fun things you can do with your bf that don't require $. Get out and enjoy the beautiful weather by going on a walk, run, or bike ride together. Pick the most scenic route possible. If you want some quality alone time for conversation and occasional stolen kisses, choose a leisurely hand-in-hand walk. For some adventurous exploration, jump on your bikes. And to get your blood flowing, hit the trail in your running shoes for a jogging workout. If rain spoils your outdoor plans, play pool in your college's student rec center. (Winner gets a massage from the loser makes for a fun bet.) Or play boardgames and eat junk food.

On the Cheap:
If you have a little cash to spare, opt for going to a place where a little money buys a lot of interest or fun. Art museums can be amazingly interesting. They're not just full of paintings and sculptures, but of historic artifacts, too. Many are free or charge low admission for students. Make it fun by trying to find a paint that reminds you of each other. If music is more your thing, ask around to see if there will be any outdoor concerts on or near campus. Or rent a movie that neither of you have seen and watch it just the two of you.

Moderate Budget:
Switch up a traditional dinner and a movie by eating at a restaurant you've never dined at before. (Try something exotic!) Or if you're both fans of good food, good sports, and good atmosphere, hang out at a sports bar for the night. Other options include attending a play put on by your college's theatre department or going to a college baseball game.

Splurges:
Maybe you two lovebirds haven't seen each other forrrrever and it feels like it's been even longer since you've actually gone out on a date. Everyone wants to be spoiled a little. Get dressed up and go out to a fancy restaurant. (Don't forget to make reservations if it's a local hot spot on date nights.) If you have more time and money to spare, consider going on a weekend getaway. If you seek adventure, go on a mini-roadtrip. If you long for something more relaxing, book a couple nights at a nearby bed&breakfast.

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International | The Right Fit, 12

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Some students yearn to study abroad for a semester. But you may find yourself craving a study abroad experience for the entire four years. There are many benefits to choosing an overseas education. Do any of these strike you?

• You want to learn a new language. Yes, colleges offer language classes from the basic Spanish and French to German, Russian, Latin, Chinese, etc. But the optimal way to acquire a foreign language is through immersion.
  
• You want to travel. Not only will you be traveling the country where your school is located, but you'd have many opportunities to travel around that country or nearby ones. You can take weekend trips, hop on a train during an academic break, or sign up for a school sponsored field trip. Imagine the places you'll go!
• You want to experience a different culture. By studying in a different country, you'll be surrounded by new and different foods, etiquette, architecture, fashion, beliefs, customs, etc. And you'll experience it all first-hand.
• You want to learn and experience things that a home-soil college can't provide. You'll be whisked away from the American definition of normal and while it may be terrifying at first, it's an amazingly exciting opportunity. You will learn to adapt in ways that you wouldn't need to at home. And you'll become a more well-rounded person because of it.
• You want to make international friends. You'll probably meet other Americans who are studying abroad, but you'll meet tons of peers from all kinds of different backgrounds and cultures.
• You want to learn more about yourself. Studying abroad provides a unique chance to discover yourself. You'll abandon old perspectives and embrace new. Or maybe what you find will strengthen your original beliefs.
• You want to expand your view of the world. You'll be familiar with much more than your home state after studying abroad for four years.
• You want to do something different than the typical college routine. Many international universities are structured different. It's an entirely different academic system and will probably take some getting used to, but you'll have the chance to undertake challenges and do things that you couldn't do on a traditional American campus.
• You want to kick your employment opportunities up a notch. The world is becoming more and more globalized. A future employer may be very impressed to see that you've done some schooling overseas.
• You want to increase the worth of your degree. You won't just be getting a diploma---you'll be gaining tons of knowledge, experiencing a different culture, picking up language skills, and overcoming challenges that make your degree a whole lot more valuable.

If you're worried about not being able to speak another language, select an international school that offers classes in English. But do try to at least pick up some language training so that you can converse in everyday settings with people in the country you go to. If you really want to be surrounded by English, consider sticking to somewhere like the UK. If you don't want to go off the continent, consider a quality education in Canada.

Any study abroad office at a college can probably give you information about selecting an international school. If you already know what country you want to go to, the Universities Worldwide website hosts a listing of different colleges in all countries of the world. To check it out, click here.

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Springtime Fun for Any Budget | with Friends

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Spring is in full swing. So grab your girls and enjoy the beautiful weather during this last few weeks of school.

Totally Free:
Money doesn't necessarily buy fun. You can have lots of fun times without it. Invite over the besties for an old school slumber party. Scrounge up all snacks from each others' dorms, slip into the comfiest clothes, and pop in chick flicks for a night of laughter and gossip. Or organize a clothing swap. Have you and your friends bring any unwanted clothes to a meeting spot. Have fun swapping garments. You'll each go home with something new without having to worry about price tags.

On the Cheap:
If you have a little money to spare, go for a picnic on your university quad. Pack your own lunch or hit up a sandwich shop. Spread out a blanket, bring the latest issue of Cosmo, eat up, and soak in the sun on a lovely afternoon. Or host a baking party. Meet in the kitchenette of your dorm building or the kitchen of a friend lucky enough to live in an apartment. Bake cookies, cake, muffins, and other sundry yummy things.

Moderate Budget:
If you're yearning to get off of campus, hit up the movie theatre for the latest movie you and your gals have been dying to see. The Back-Up Plan looks cute and funny. But you can't always catch up with your girlfriends in the movie theatre. So if you're craving some conversation, agree to meet up at a local coffee house with great atmosphere and cappuccinos.

Splurges:
That money that you've been saving all semester might be burning a hole in your pocket. And before long it will be time for finals, so you might wanna spend it while you can. If your girlfriends are feeling the same way and have the money to spare, go on a shopping trip. Hit up the local mall or roadtrip to the best mall in the area. Every girl could use a new pair of cute flats or a sundress to welcome summertime. If shopping isn't on your agenda, throw a big weekend party. Consider a theme and go all out. It'll be a school-year-end affair to remember.

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Out-of-State vs. In-State | The Right Fit, 11

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Yes, it is important to consider your wants. Maybe you want to move far away, maybe you want to stay close to home. Maybe you live somewhere cold, but want to move somewhere warm and sunny. Maybe you wanna try something new, maybe you wanna ease into college. All these are part of the decision of whether to go to college in state or go out of state. And while your wants are important, you need to weigh in on the big picture, too.

So while taking your wants into account, also remember these big factors when choosing between in-state and out-of-state.

Tuition
Keep in mind that going to school in-state will likely save you money. At public institutions, tuition and fees cost thousands less for in-state residents than for students coming from out-of-state. Sometimes, public institutions make provisions for scholarships for out-of-state students. And sometimes, public institutions have a program that allow an out-of-state resident to pay in-state tuition if they are from a neighboring state. Basically, you just need to ask the college that you're interested in. Ask about scholarships, grants, and any neighbor-state deals. As for private institutions, tuition is generally the same whether you're coming from out-of-state or not.

Travel
Also keep in mind the travel expenses of going out-of-state. Depending on how far you plan on going, you should factor in gas, train rides, or airfare for the visits you want to make back home. It's all relative though. If you live close to a state border, you may actually end up going to a school closer to home by going out-of-state.

Distance
If your goal is to get away and be somewhere completely new, then you're probably planning on going several states away. But if you want to get maybe six hours away, consider all of your options before restricting yourself to out-of-state colleges. There may be colleges in your own state that are five or six hours away. You'll feel far from home, but be close enough if you wanna go home. And you'll reap the benefits of-in-state tuition if it is a public school.

Transferring
While course credits are becoming more widespread, remember that different states may treat courses differently. If you end up transferring, courses may not transfer as smoothly as you expect. So if you go out-of-state, you'll be wise to focus on general education first. Just in case you decide to transfer, most of your classes will count at another college despite state borders.

Future Plans
If you have your heart set on attending an out-of-state school and you plan on living there after you graduate, too... really put your all into it. Check out the residency requirements for the state you plan on going to school in. If you live in a state for a certain amount of years, you may become eligible for state residency. That would get you in-state tuition vs. out-of-state (if you're at a public school). It may be worth considering taking up year-round residence (include summer) in the state of your education so that you can catch a break on tuition for a couple years.

Indecision
If you want to go out-of-state, it will generally cost more. You'll probably be moving farther away. Tuition and fees might cost more. Transportation and living expenses may add up to be more. It is a big financial commitment. So only go out-of-state if you are absolutely sure and absolutely ready. If you're uncertain, you're safe bet is to go to an in-state school first to avoid a big waste of time and money. There's no sense in making brash decisions. Weigh your options and try to make a choice you can stick with for the long run.

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Currently Reading: Getting In

Hey fellow bookworms---just wanted to update you on the novel I currently have my nose stuck in. I was selected to read and review Karen Stabiner's Getting In. I just started the first chapter today on my work break. And I must say that the first several pages already have me looking forward to what's coming next. (And I love the cover.)

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In 10 Years...

Jesse from Just Flew the Coop posted about the question "Where will I be in 10 years?" and tagged me to do the same. I thought about it all day long and (like Jesse) decided to find some pictures that match the future I daydreamed up.

Ten years from now I will be thirty-one years old. College will be behind me and I'll love my job as a reading teacher at an elementary school somewhere in Iowa.

I will be happily married to the handsome and funny love of my life... who hopefully turns out to be my current amazing bf. ;)

I will live in an adorable house. It may not be huge, but it will have a lot of character. The outside will be painted a pretty color like pink or turquoise... and I'll have lovely white gingerbread trim.

The inside of my house will be my creative playground when it comes to decorating. The wall colors, throw pillows, curtains, and furniture arrangements will probably change frequently. There will be lots of magazines, books, and vintage typewriters. The walls will never be naked. And I'll try to always have fresh flowers in the living room.

My bedroom will be a relaxing place to retire at the end of a day. And I'll have a stack of books close at hand for that time of evening when I love to stick my nose in a novel.

My kitchen will be colorful. Hopefully by then I'll be a pro at all things culinary. I'll bake cookies, muffins, and delicious desserts and cook up yummy pastas, omelets, and homemade pizzas. And I'll do all of that in a pretty, retro-inspired apron.

Somewhere in my house there will be a quiet corner for me to do my researching, writing, and blogging. After trying for many years, I'll have finally landed a publisher that wants to publish my historical fiction novel. I'll be doing lots of researching, editing, re-writing in this quiet corner in preparation for the release of my first novel. ;)

I will have a ghost chair. This is imminent. And if things go as planned, I'll have one at my desk and at least four around my dining room table. I will admire their translucence daily.

Oh, and I'll be driving around town in a '57 Chevy. (Well, a girl can dream... can't she?)

Thanks, Jesse for tagging me. This was lots of fun. :)

Readers, check out Jesse's blog Just Flew the Coop.

Where will you be ten years from now?

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Sad News

Back in early February, I posted about the missing ISU college student named Jon Lacina. Jon was a twenty-one year old student at ISU, a senior majoring in graphic design. He disappeared January 22, last seen leaving a party at an apartment complex near campus.

On April 14, a beautiful 75-degree day in Ames, an ISU police officer found a deceased male body in an "isolated room" of an building on the college's old dairy farm. The building was just outside the initial search area. And the following afternoon, a medical examiner and Lacina's family confirmed that the body was indeed that of Jon Lacina.

I find this news to be not only sad, but also shocking. I'm surprised that the dairy farm was not included in the initial search area. The building is only a mile south of campus, and only a couple blocks south of the dorm that I lived in last fall. My windows faced south and when I looked out of them, I could see the old dairy farm.

Jon Lacina's body was discovered in the middle of VEISHEA, the huge week-long celebration of ISU's original colleges. VEISHEA is jampacked with concerts, performances, speakers, activities, exhibits, parades, food stands, and carnivals. However, while ISU students are eager for the celebrations begin... the discover of Jon Lacina's body is a sorrowful shadow in the back of students' minds.

How did he end up there? What happened? And why? These questions are still a mystery. The body is undergoing an autopsy and foul play will not be ruled out until after the autopsy. Results may come in days or maybe weeks. But it may be a long time before we have the answers we desire so much.

My thoughts and prayers (as well as the thoughts and prayers of thousands of ISU students and Iowans) are with the Lacina family in the time of mourning and wondering. I hope the questions are eventually answered so that there may be closure on this tragedy.

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Update

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First of all, I must apologize. This past week became so hectic that the "Hispanic-serving colleges" and "online education" posts were delayed. They are up now so check them out. ;)

Why has my life been so hectic? Well, this was the first week back from Spring Break and my professors kicked us all back into gear. Also, I started a new job working as a sales associate for JCPenney. I reeeeally like it so far. Retail isn't for everyone, but I enjoy it immensely compared to the grocery industry. :P Plus, I get to work surrounded by cute clothes everyday. And I really love it when a customer asks for my help finding a cute blouse for a skirt or pair of shoes to match a dress. Plus, I get to work with my lovely cousin. :)

The only bummers this weekend: I have a sore, itchy, scratchy, irritating throat. [sigh]

So again---sorry for the two late posts. How has your week been? I would love to hear what you've been up to.

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Teeny-Tiny | Inspiration from AT's Small, Cool 2010

It's time for Apartment Therapy's annual Small, Cool contest. :D I love seeing all the photos of real people's small spaces---especially the teeny-tiny ones. Here are some photos of recent entries:

(above two photos via Apartment Therapy: Lacey's DIY in the Details. For more photos + floor plan, click here.) Lacey's space is my favorite of the teeny-tiny entries so far. I love the subtle eclecticism, diy touches, and mix of furniture she has going on. I especially like the dresser her tv sits on. The bed looks comfy. The mirrored nightstand is lovely. And that chair looks like the perfect place to curl up with a good book or magazine.

(above photo via Apartment Therapy: Whitney's Well Organized Home. For more photos + floor plan, click here.) Whitney's small space is appealing because of all the crisp white and sunlight. She's also an organizer extraordinaire---check out that cabinetry! I'm completely smitten with the colorful quilt on her bed. And isn't that a sweet doggie?

(above photo via Apartment Therapy: Nicole's Vintage Beauty. For more photos + floor plan, click here.) I am a sucker for exposed brick and would love to live in a space that features some. And isn't Nicole's bed gorgeous?

(above photo via Apartment Therapy: Lindsay's Little Box. For more photos + floor plan, click here.) Lastly, I like Lindsay's place because of the pretty blue color scheme, easy-to-move coffee tables, tall stack of books, and cute pillows.

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Online Education | The Right Fit, 10

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Online education (or e-learning) is instrucction delivered on a computer via the internet. It is an option of increasing popularity for not only our own generation, but also for adults going back to school and even high school students that want to get some colleges classes under their belts. There are generally two types of class delivery: self paced and led by an instructor. The learning includes text, video, audio, discussion boards, and other internet media.

There are many strictly-online universities that you've probably seen the commercials for. (Think Phoenix and DeVry.) Community colleges often offer a wide variety of online courses... sometimes entire degrees can be completed all (or nearly all) online. And even four-year schools are jumping on the bandwagon by offering online courses to distance-learners and on-campus students.

If you are curious about online courses, the best thing to do is check out the schools that offer e-learning. Different schools deliver the courses in different manners. For example: when I took online courses at community college, everything was completed online. Tests, quizzes, homework---everything was submitted via the internet course platform. But when I took an online course at university, the tests had to be taken at a proctored, on-campus testing center. And honestly, having to trek to that testing center was quite the hassle.

Also, the online course also varies according to your instructor. Some instructors may allow you to work at your own pace and turn things in whenever you want as long as you complete the course by the scheduled completion date. Some professors create units and make each unit due at (for example) midnight every Friday. And yet some professors insist on being difficult. I've had professors who make discussions due at 3pm on Mondays, quizzes due at 5pm Wednesdays, and then tests due at midnight on Saturdays. Keeping track of all those due dates can be frustrating.

Overall, I've had great experiences with online classes. I've taken entire terms of online courses... and I've split my term between a couple online and a couple on-campus. Either way, taking online courses freed up my schedule for work and play. I was more able to do things when I wanted to do things. And that flexibility was awesome.

If you plan on taking an online course, you must be motivated and organized. Online courses demand the same effort (if not more) than campus classes. There's no one there to tell you when something is due, so you must motivate yourself to open up your book and study. It's up to you to look it up on the course calendar and keep track. For online courses, there's rarely an excuse for missing a deadline. Organization is key so that you can keep everything straight. And, of course, familiarity with computers is essential. If you worry about that, there's probably someone who can train you to understand how your course is delivered. (Generally it's pretty straightforward and easy to pick up on.)

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For more information about online education, ask the schools you're interested in. Or, click here for some internet-based info.

Photo Collage

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This real dorm photo comes from savvymojo's flickr photostream. First of all, I think the pillow patterns are way cute. But mostly, I love the photo collage. By clicking here, you can view the original photo on flickr. Savvymojo added a note to every little photo in her collage explaining what it is or its significance. These include a card from her dad to her mom, vintage postcards, a mini Klimt print, and photos of old Hollywood stars.

The best kind of wall decor is the kind that makes us feel at home and surrounded by things we like.

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Hispanic Serving | The Right Fit, 9

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A Hispanic-serving instiution (called an HSI) is a college or university in the US that attempts to assist 1st generation, majority low income Hispanic college students.

An HSI cannot be a for-profit university. An HSI must offer at least two-year academic programs that would lead up to a degree an dbe accredited by a recognized association. Additionally, an HSI must have at least a 25% Hispanic undergrad full-time student enrollment.

There are large grants offered to HSIs through the Department of Education. These grants allow for serving all ethnicities and supplying funds for administration, development, and academic programs, plus facility management, tutoring, and student support and counseling.

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For more information, visit the Hispanic Association of Colleges and Universities.

Drinking | Safe & Smart, 7

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If you're of-age, there's no harm in going out and having a good time. But becoming an overly-intoxicated, can't-stand-on-her-own-two-feet, throwing-up-everywhere kind of drunk is not only unattractive, but it endangers your health, impairs your decision making, and makes you vulnerable to being the subject of mugging or sexual crimes. Take care of yourself by following these tips:

♥DON'T go wild drinking and playing crazy drinking games that encourage heavy drinking. Stay classy. Drink light.

♥DON'T lose track of how many drinks you've had and how long ago you had them. It's a general rule that it takes the body 1 hour to metabolize the alcohol of 1 drink.

♥DO have a plan for how you're getting to the party and how you're getting home. And stick to it.

♥DO know your state's legal limit. Consult one of the tables to see how little alcohol you'd need to consume to be legally intoxicated.

♥DON'T drive drunk. You'll not only be putting your own life at risk, but the lives of others.

♥DON'T let friends drive drunk either.

♥DO take responsibility. If you're stopped and charged with DUI, you will be going to jail. Dressed and looking as you are, you will be searched, photographed, fingerprinted, and booked. And holding cells are not lovely places for young ladies to end up spending time in.

♥DO keep an eye on your drink. DON'T put it down. It only takes a fleeting second for some guy to slip a drug into your drink and make you the victim of a date rape. (Thanks to Cafe Fashionista for this tip.)

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Post-It Wall

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I stumbled upon this on Miss Kels' Flickr photostream. It is a photo of the post-it note wall mural that she and her roomie created in their dorm. I've seen several all-yellow post-it walls and never much cared for such a display. But I really like this multi-colored post-it mural. The red couch and patterned pillows are pretty fab, too.

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Small Space Solutions | Some More Bedrooms

(image via: here.) If your floor has a lot of character to it, play it up. Keep the walls and bed as simple, white, and crisp as can be. Stick to minimal furniture---an essential dresser to store clothes and a retro chair for a place to sit. Leave the windows undressed so that light can pour in. And check out that ethereal ceiling light.

(image via: here.) Daybeds are not only lovely, but boast double function as beds and as places to sit. By filling the daybed with luxurious bed linens and different sizes of pillows, you'll be creating a heavenly oasis to dive into after a long school day.

(image via: here.) In extra tight spaces where you may not have room for a nightstand, this is my favorite alternative. Hang a shelf over the bed---one that's long enough and deep enough for a lamp, alarm clock, books, and whatever else you may need near to you. But keep it to a minimum and make sure the shelf is hung securely---you don't want it to fall down and knock you out while you sleep!

(image via: here.) Put the bed on the floor. Forget the frame, the headboard, the footboard, and maybe even the box spring. Place a rug under the mattress for added comfort if you have hardwood or tile floors. But seriously---a bed low to the floor, swathed in soft bedding, and brimming with plump pillows makes for an inviting, comforting place to crash. And it's visually appealing, too.

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Beware of Dog | Safe & Smart, 6

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Not all dogs are our furry, four-legged friends. And having an encounter with a loose canine can be scary. Here's how to stay safe if you have a run-in with one:

♥If confronted by a threatening dog, your first impulse may be to turn and run. DON'T. Turning and running is the worst response; it will trigger the dog's instinct to chase. And it's doubtful you can outrun it.

♥DO stand still and try to remain calm.

♥DON'T scream.

♥DO be aware of where the dog is. Look in its general direction. DON'T stare into its eyes. (Staring into the eyes will register as an aggressive challenge to the dog.)

♥DO let the dog sniff you. Just be calm and stand still while it does so.

♥DO say "No! Go home!" in a low, steady voice.

♥DO stay still until the dog leaves. Then slowly back away until the dog is out of sight.

♥If a dog attacks, try to "feed" it something (for example, your jacket or purse). While the dog is distracted with the jacket or purse, back away slowly towards safety.

♥If you fall or get knocked down, get into the fetal position. (Curl into a ball and cover your ears, face, and neck with your hands.) DON'T scream or roll around.

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Historically Black | The Right Fit, 8

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Historically black colleges and universities are schools with origins at the time when African-American students were systematically denied access to most other academic institutions in this country. These schools were founded before 1964 with the intent of serving black students. While times have changed and schools no longer segregate races, these schools provide a unique opportunity for African-American students to experience an academic community in which they're part of the majority.

There are over 100 historically black colleges in the US today---these include public, private, two-year, four-year, community colleges, and specialty schools such as medical institutes. Most were established after the Civil War, but there are a handful with antebellum origins.

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P.S. For a list of the top historically black colleges in the US, click here.

Philips LivingColors

Here at LovelyUndergrad, it's all about budget-friendly ways to style your college living space. I don't spend a lot of time promoting expensive products, but I'm going to make an exception because I believe this product is well worth the money.

I recently heard about the new Philips LivingColors LED lights. These babies are small, easy to operate, and saturate your white walls with whatever color your heart desires. (There are 16 million color possibilities!) You change the color with a simple remote. And voila! Your walls are purple, pink, orange, or any other hue.

I think these lights go for about $200, but if color is a big deal to you and you're fretting about living in a white box when you go to college---I think this is a great solution. It might be something to think about saving your money up for this summer.

Or maybe you're lucky enough to win a giveaway. Enter to win one of the LivingColors lamps here.

Here's a video that shows the LivingColors light in action:



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Let the Springtime In!

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Bring Springtime into your dorm or apartment with these easy decor tips:

♥Undress or re-dress the windows. Rethink the heavy drapes you've got going on. By taking them down or replacing them with sheer white curtains, the sun's rays will be able to flow in more freely. For an even lovelier affect, open up the windows so that the Springtime breeze can come in! (You might want to avoid opening the windows if your roomie has allergies...)

♥Bring in some fresh flowers. A bouquet of pretty tulips in purple, pink, or yellow cost about $5 from your local Wal-Mart. (Daisies, carnations, and peonies are lovely, too.) Stick the flowers in a cute vase and enjoy. You'll be surprised at how a simple bouquet of flora can instantly cheer up a room.

♥Clean. It isn't called "Spring Cleaning" for nothing. Take a day (or weekend, depending on the size of your place) to do some deep cleaning. Scrub the floors, walls, bathroom, and windows. Wipe down all furniture. Dust. Vacuum. Wash everything from bed sheets to pillow cases and curtains to wall tapestries. It'll be a lot of work, but the fresh result is so totally worth it.

♥Start slimming down. No, this doesn't pertain to your new diet and work-out routine for that bikini-ready body you want in a month. We're talking junk. In about a month, it'll be time for you to move out of your dorm/apartment and back home (or wherever you plan on dwelling for the summer) unless you're staying at school and taking summer courses. If you're able to make weekend trips home, take stuff home with you. If making it home won't be possible, start packing what you can. Ditch things you won't need. Donate stuff to Goodwill or have a small yard sale. You'll be thrilled when you'll be able to pack everything into your car and head home for the summer.

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Religiously Affiliated | The Right Fit, 7

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Religiously-affiliated colleges and universities are private schools that were established by religious groups or organizations. These schools do not limit admission strictly to students who share the school's affiliated faith, but the school administration is ruled by religious principles.

There are many colleges in the country that you may not realize have religious affiliations. For example, Notre Dame and Georgetown are both Catholic. Brandeis University and Yeshiva University are both Jewish. Bringham Young is Mormon and Earlham College is Quaker. If you are curious about whether a school has religious affiliations, check out the mission statement. The mission statement will clue you in on whether the school is affiliated at all, whether or not is historic only, and how the affiliation impacts academic and social aspects of college.

If a college's religious affiliation is historic only, that means the school was established by a religious group or organization but that the religion does alter campus life in any major way. Some religiously affiliated schools hold mandatory worship services for students to attend. So the involvement of faith varies from one religiously affiliated school to another. It's crucial to check out the school's religious mission to be sure you'll be happy and comfortable with how faith is included in the education system.

If you're worried about the quality of academics at a religious school... don't. Your education will be equal to one you'd receive at a secular school. There may be slight differences in how subject matter is approached, but there is no "Christian algebra" vs. "secular algebra." In addition, religious schools offer a large variety of majors and minors, sports, volunteer opportunities, student organizations and activities, and everything else that secular institutes offer.

Students at religiously affiliated schools are often very serious about their education and focus more on their education goals as opposed to engaging in drugs, binge drinking, and other risky behavior. Religious schools have a high satisfaction and retention rate. The major difference between religiously-affiliated schools and secular schools is that at a religous college there is much more support for your faith. Your religion can become a more integral part of your education and daily life on campus.

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P.S.
For more info on Christian colleges and universities, click here.
For more info on schools affiliated with the Jewish faith, click here.
For more info on Catholic colleges, click here.